The Weight of Comparison
One of the heaviest burdens many students carry is not failure itself, but comparison. A student may be hardworking, disciplined, and genuinely intelligent, yet feel inadequate because the results do not reflect the effort invested. Examination scripts are graded, scores are released, and suddenly one's sense of worth becomes tied to numbers on a sheet of paper. The problem often begins when students measure themselves against the highest-performing individuals around them. In such comparisons, they may conclude that because they are not the best, they are not good enough. Yet these are not the same thing. Not being as good as someone else does not mean one is not good. Reality, however, can be difficult. Sometimes a student who dreams of graduating with a first-class degree finds himself struggling to maintain a second-class standing. Despite countless hours of study and sincere effort, the desired results remain out of reach. Repeated disappointment can gradually weaken motivat...