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Social Media Divide

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  Social media is meant to be an outlet that connects people from like and unlike backgrounds; culturally, socially, religiously, economically, and otherwise. It was designed as a bridge, a meeting point of ideas and experiences. Information is sourced and shared on these platforms, stories are told, voices are amplified, and, ideally, understanding is built. Yet, it is quite disappointing to see the dragging that thrives in this space. At times, it becomes so toxic that one even contemplates logging out for good. But like alcohol addicts, many of us are so hooked that we can’t seem to do without it anymore. We complain about the chaos, yet we keep scrolling, engaging, reacting, and we are just trapped in a cycle we pretend not to notice. What is even more disheartening is the intensity of these draggings when they are fueled by differences in religion . You begin to wonder: are these not the same people I live with, relate with, and transact with in my everyday environment? Life ...

Kinds of talk that are prohibited in the mosque

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  ASSALAMU ALAIKUM WARAHMATULLAH  Praise be to ALlah, and blessings and peace be upon the Messenger of ALlah: The mosques are places where the Muslims gather for the purpose of worshipping, obeying and remembering their Lord. Hence ALlah, may He be Exalted, has enjoined us to venerate and honour them, as He says: {… in houses [mosques] which ALlah has ordained to be built so that His name may be remembered therein. In them His name is glorified morning and afternoon, by men who are not distracted by buying or selling from the remembrance of ALlah, or from establishing prayer or giving zakat. They fear a day when hearts will quiver and eyes will stare fixedly} [ An-Noor 24:36-37 ]. The Prophet (blessings and peace of ALlah be upon him) said: “rather they [mosques] are for the remembrance of ALlah, may He be Glorified and Exalted, and prayer, and reading Quran.” Narrated by Muslim (285). To highlight the importance of respecting the mosques, ALlah, may He be Exalted, has ordaine...

A Bowl Of Hope: Ode to Garri

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Food is very essential for human’s survival. It gives us the fuel and energy to keep up with our day-to-day activities. Truly, no one fares well on an empty stomach. From our earliest lessons, we learn about the six classes of food and their functions in our lives. Yet, on closer observation, a large percentage of what we eat in this part of the world is carbohydrates . And there are countless sources of this energy-giving class of food: rice, yam, cassava , maize , and many more. We prepare white rice and stew or jollof , sometimes with a little fish or meat. We make yam porridge, boiled yam with sauce ( egg sauce sometimes), pounded yam that stretches into family meals. We turn corn and cassava flour into ójé (swallow), mold akpu from fermented cassava , and find comfort in plates that carry both memory and meaning. But my major focus is garri . Garri is a lifesaver. A true companion, especially to the student who lives away from home, the student with not much time to spare for t...

Turning off the cell phone during the Friday khutbah, does this come under the heading of idle action that invalidates the reward of Jumu’ah?

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  ASSALAMU ALAIKUM WARAHMATULLAH  Praise be to ALlah, and blessings and peace be upon the Messenger of ALlah: Firstly:  Using musical tunes as the ring tones for cell phones is an evil action and is haram, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of ALlah be upon him) forbade all musical instruments.   The one who forgets to turn off his cell phone during the Friday khutbah has to turn it off if it rings, even if the ring tone is permissible, because leaving it disturbs the khateeb and other worshippers, and distracts them from the obligation of listening to the khateeb. We hope that switching it off does not come under the heading of idle talk that is forbidden during the Friday khutbah, which is referred to in the question. This is mentioned in the words of the Prophet (peace and blessings of ALlah be upon him), “but whoever touches the pebbles has engaged in an idle action.” Narrated by Muslim (857).  The hadith applies to the one who fiddles with someth...

Globalization and It's Influence On Ethical Morality.

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In junior secondary school, my computer science teacher taught me that among the advantages of computer and the developments it comes with, is that the world is now a GLOBAL VILLAGE . He explained the concept of GLOBALIZATION as a system where the world become more interconnected. In the aspect of communication, economic, transportation, culture, and other conceptual models. Initially, it described international trade and economic integration. However, in today's understanding, it compasses broader aspects like culture, technology, and communication often with both positive and negative connotations. But, with this globalization, there's a stealthily consistent erosion of our moral ethics as a people. There's a need to forge a balance between our ethical standards and this ideology where people, goods, cultures and information is now able to cross national borders unfettered, especially with the help of modern technology and social media. This is even more significant tr...

A Thief Is a Thief

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  A thief is a thief. Thieves do not mind being petty; a thief is a thief. I write this piece with sadness, sadness at how poorly we (some of us think) sometimes think and how petty we can become. We are all struggling, surviving, and trying to live. Yet it is deeply unfortunate how some unscrupulous elements (excuse my choice of words) in our society pay little or no attention to the consequences of their actions. Just recently, I boarded a keke to get to my destination. There were two passengers at the rear seat and the driver in front. There was space for one or two more passengers, as is typical. I became mildly suspicious when the driver repeatedly refused to stop for people flagging him down along the road. Still, I kept calm and grew extra observant. He did not stop at the exact place I asked to alight, and the stop itself was too abrupt. As I stepped down, one of the supposed passengers beside me picked my phone and concealed his hand between his thighs. The driver was alr...

Does Turning Away from The Qiblah Invalidate The Prayer

 ASSALAMU ALAIKUM WARAHMATULLAH Praise be to ALlāh, and peace and blessings be upon the Messenger of ALlāh and his family. Turning away from the Qiblah in prayer is of different types: Turning away physically, by turning one’s chest away from the direction of the Qiblah. This type of turning away invalidates the prayer , because facing towards the Qiblah is one of the conditions of prayer being valid. Turning one’s head or eyes away, while the body remains facing towards the Qiblah. This type of turning away is disliked, unless the Muslim does it because he needs to. If he does it with no need, then he has diminished the reward for his prayer but it is still valid and is not rendered invalid by that. It says in Al-Mawsu`ah Al-Fiqhiyyah (27/109): “There is no difference of opinion among the jurists regarding the fact that it is disliked to turn away in prayer, because of the Hadith of `Aishah (may ALlāh be pleased with her), who said: I asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of AL...

The Rising Moral Decadence In Modern Society

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In my mother tongue ( igala ), it is often said: manakólalo alonaba, alu ogijo magbulu omiéka. It roughly translates to: we are complaining about the corrosiveness of caustic soda , yet the caustic soda keeps becoming even more corrosive. Omiéka is a local drink made by diluting pap with excess water and allowing it to sit for a few days, giving it a sour, fermented taste. You can sense its smell from the mouth of an elder who has taken it. In the same way, our elders continue to imbibe, impart, and inculcate moral values in the younger generation. They relentlessly caution, warn, and guide us about the dangers and consequences of social vices , even though society keeps growing more corrosive in its behaviour. There is a growing uneasiness in today’s world, a feeling that something fundamental(societal morality) is slipping quietly through our fingers. Everywhere we turn, from our neighbourhoods to the vast digital world where many young people now spend their lives, we encounter s...

My School (A Tribute to CUSTECH Osara)

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CUSTECH Osara , my school Where dawn breaks on eager minds, And hope walks freely through lecture halls. Here, wisdom is planted, Watered by peace, And bound together by unity. Beneath these roofs of learning, Dreams are shaped with discipline, And excellence is not a wish, But a duty we strive to earn. Academic light shines steadily, Guiding effort into achievement. O Lord our God, In whom all knowledge finds its source, We rely on You. Grant our lecturers insight to teach with patience, And grant us hearts ready to learn. May this school stand firm Not only in walls and buildings, But in truth, resilience, and purpose. Let no force that opposes growth prevail, And let every challenge refine us. So shall victory be ours In character, In learning, And in life, Each day we walk these grounds. ® Ahmed Salim Jn ✍️ #Uloko

Here comes I.

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  Home is good, home is sweet. Filled with love, sincere and real. Sometimes, one wishes not to go away and stray. One's wish is never to leave. "Oh Lord My God," from my heart, I plead for no end to this. For this is nothing but pure Bliss . Yet, oftentimes, we go out of our comfort zones when we seek. Man was placed in Eden to work it and take care of it. Then he is banished to work the ground from which he was taken. Here comes I; my goal my dream. Never to give up on my chase. In love and compassion, I was raised.  Walking in innocence, honesty, unstained.  My moral values , I must retain. God Almighty remains the ultimate gain. And He alone fills my mind.  ® Ahmed Salim Jn ✍️  #Uloko

Redirecting the Genius of Nigerian Youths

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  A lot of times, we see images like this, circulating on social media. It depict African children labelled as 'Upcoming Yahoo Boys' and white children as 'Upcoming Clients'. It troubles me to imagine how lowly some of us think of ourselves, it is deeply troubling. But, beyond the discomfort they evoke, these kinds of captions reflect a dangerous normalization of stereotypes that undermine the dignity, intelligence, and future of African youths, particularly Nigerians. What makes this more painful is that these narratives are often amplified by our very own people. Nigeria as a nation, has never been short of history, intellect, or civilization. Our cultures span hundreds, even thousands of years, rooted in systems of governance, philosophy, medicine, trade, and art long before colonial contact. And even today, in the modern world, we still continue to excel globally; producing scholars, engineers, doctors, innovators, artists, entrepreneurs, and scientists of remarkabl...

Smokers Are Liable To Die Young

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  Smokers are liable to die young. But smokable substances are everywhere, easily accessible, and readily available. Óméwétuna'jo y'éni oñu lé atula (A chick is burning in the fire, yet it claims it undergoes rendering). RENDERING is a local procedure we use in extracting fats from animals or even insects like crickets , it is done by subjecting them to a reasonable amount of heat which causes the fats to drip off. The tragedy of this procedure is that the animal eventually dies.  Smokers are liable to die young. This warning is boldly written on cigarette packs, impossible to miss, deliberately frightening.  The images of a healthy and an unhealthy lung are openly displayed on the packs respectively. Yet, for many users, it has become just background noise. it is seen but not heard, read but not believed. Addiction has a strange way of dulling fear. It convinces the mind that danger is exaggerated, distant, or meant for others. Some smokers live long lives, and this r...

Healing is The Ultimate Goal

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  It is said that Hippocrates idea is ' medicus curat, natura sanat ' (Latin): The Physicians treat, Nature heals. However, as a religious people, we adapt that, Physicians treat, and God Heals. And this reminds me of Benedict Cumberbatch who played the role of a Neurosurgeon as Dr. Stephen Strange in the MCU movie, he replied to a question saying; that they (antibiotics) are not solely responsible for healing, but they provide a conducive environment for the process. Cells heal by reconstituting themselves in the body. In my Momma's tongue, we say; Ójóchogwumi tak'ogwu chójé óga. God is my healing medicine , before the medicine even became suitable food for my ailment. The development of orthodox medicine , as taught in the history of medicine , reveals a long and layered journey shaped by culture, philosophy, religion, and empirical observation. From the ancient period before 500 CE, medical knowledge was deeply intertwined with belief systems.  The Ebers and Edwi...

A Proud Local Champion

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  Abékékpé le ichéñu kéman'uchobo n ? I don't mind being a local champion It's true I'm not posh, I don't deny not being "classy" (in your opinion) but for sure, I am not crassly. It's true I'm not fresh like those who wears designers. I don't feign big achievements, it's true I can't afford so many things for now. Yeah I know my mates who are much more ahead of me in life, but hey life is not a competition between me and you, we all move at our own respective pace. Just because I speak against ills and vices in our society, you think and say I'm a local champion? I don't drag travelling to many places with you, and yes travelling is part of education, so also is being well read.  And I checked the meaning of being a local champion and was rather not displeased to know it describes a person who is highly respected, admired, and successful in his/her local circle. He/she is seen by many as a leader, as an icon, even as an emulata...

Life is a journey between the first and last breathe.

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  Ényó kabakpa che, oñu ajéñu ójó ékéjóñu kó (The good deeds that a Muslim does while alive, fuel-crowd his rememberance day). Life, from its very beginning, has always been a long chain of struggles wrapped in quiet miracles. Before we even take form, we fight through the unpredictable chance of existence, one tiny sperm among millions, pushing through chaos to meet an egg that never sends an invitation(Life can be a lottery in this sense). That struggle is our first victory, though we never remember it. Birth itself is another. A child entering the world comes  through pain, pressure, uncertainty, and yet emerge crying, breathing, and SURVIVING. It’s as if life starts by whispering a truth we only understand much later 'nothing worth becoming comes without effort'. And as we open our eyes to the world, clueless, hapless and helpless, the next battles begin, one by one, shaping us long before we learn the word 'struggle'. Growing up is another long curriculum of challe...