Fear of Failure.
The money arrived wrapped in santana leather , crumpled from passing through many hands. Moma and Popa had sent it. It is contributions from brothers, sisters and even the niece at home. Uloko , I held it and thought, I cannot fail. Not because failure would kill me, but because it would undo them. This is the fear I want to talk about. As humans, we always have needs, desires, aspirations and ambitions. But just like life, the result of our actions and/or inactions is a function of the probability of success or failure. By success, I mean the achievement of one's goal or aim, and failure as the inability to meet a set goal or objective. Our approach and reaction to these possible outcomes is subjective. While some overcome their fear and proceed, others are held back from taking action. We say it's because of fear, the " Fear of Failure ". I speak of the anxiety of not meeting expectations which can hold people back from taking risks , pursuing goals or even try...